I am very career oriented, and my life is very satisfying except I am missing that masculine influence. I am 42. I have many facets. I love my work....I am well spoken and well read. I like music...techno/dance, hard, punk, classical, blues.....but not country or rap. I love going to science centers, art museums, drives (do you drive fast? awesome!), flea markets, water(whether wading, snorkeling or boating), concerts, movies (especially the more bizarre independents or documentaries), reading, motorcycles, animals, thunderstorms (let's chase a tornado!), talking (politics,human rights,enviroment), dancing, practical jokes and competition.

Looking for a well-mannered,intelligent man who can handle a large, lovely, quirky and intelligent woman. I need to find a man who can stimulate my mind and make me laugh (or at the very least, laugh at me!). Just want to be friends? Perfect! Not that I don't want anything serious someday, but I am not in a hurry-----I will not be planning our wedding from day one! I want a man who has a brain--and knows how to use it! I don't care how you make your living, but you will have to be understanding of my work. Do you make sculpture out of junk parts? Do you have a motorcycle? Would you skinny dip on a dare? Would you like taking road trips/traveling? Can you hold your own with a mostly sophisticated yet very spontaneous lady? I am not looking for a purely physical relationship---I want a man I can enjoy some of the great parts of life with. I am not into looks......I would prefer you to be near my height since I am tall. I would prefer someone older than myself. I look forward to meeting you!