A weekend in the Arizona desert, an evening in Taos, and jamming at Jazzfest: these are all things I've thought seriously about doing recently, but did not follow through because I am prone to routine. I am not looking for Courtney Love, but need someone to help inspire the spontaneity in me.

At risk of overexposing myself, I must reveal that I recently quit smoking, and made a few lifestyle changes to make it stick. First, I joined a gym and exercise nearly every day. I'm not a fitness freak, but I figure I should take this opportunity to get into shape.

Second, I've decided to replace one unhealthy indulgence with several relatively benign, if not healthy ones. As a result, I am now more ambitious in seeking out tasty food, live music, and wine and beer tastings. I have thought about taking cooking classes, but have not followed up yet.

I LOVE Colorado summers, and spend as much time outdoors as I can. I like to hike, play golf, browse street fairs and farmer's markets, and lounge with cocktails and friends on a sun-splashed deck or patio. On rainy days I like to read or watch movies.

I'm a laid-back, mild-mannered person, and am looking for someone with a similar disposition. I love passionate people, but am put off people that take themselves or life too seriously. Sense of humor is also a must, as is the ability to see the humor in any situation.