ME: I am VERY different from the typical guy – so if you are looking for “normal” then I am not your man. I will be very blunt and honest here: I have learned that being so different, while sometimes difficult, has certain advantages. People who know me have told me that I am funny, but take myself too seriously sometimes. They have told me that I am always there for them when it matters, but sometimes I am not there in the moment. I can be extremely organized at times, but have no sense of time at all. I am the kind of guy who LIKES to talk allot, but sometimes enjoys just sitting there being silent. I am loyal to a fault – I would never cheat, or be careless in matters of the heart, but I can be clueless about little things that matter. Experience has made me cautious when it comes to women, but hope is a powerful antidote to doubt. I seek a partner, someone who seeks depth, loyalty, passion and growth from their relationship. I want someone to challenge me, excite me and make me a better man. I don’t want to “settle” – I want to settle down.

YOU: You are single. You are liberal, probably either atheist or agnostic. You do not have kids, but want one or two, and for the right reasons. You may not have many friends, but the ones you have are awesome. You have thought about love allot and sometimes think you have it all figured out, and sometimes wonder how it ever happens at all. You are very sexual and passionate. You are very curious and seek knowledge consistently. You understand that Love is a Process and not a Destination. You also have concluded that Love is sometimes something you Fight For. You love the summer and movies and live music and political debates and travel and reading and working out. You think Chocolate is a food group. You love being barefoot. You too do not want to “settle” for just a good guy – you want to settle down with someone very special. You are intrigued by what you have just read and are about to reach out and say Hi.